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| My mom and sister Sandy |
Note: This is a speech I gave for the
Speakeasy@Sun Toastmasters Club speech contest a few months ago. It won first place at the club
contest so I gave the speech for the District 4, Area F2 contest. It won
first place there so I represented Area F2 at the Division F speech
contest where it did
not place.
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| Mom, Sandy, and my nephew Zach Hays |
“Get in the closet.”
“I don’t want to, Ba.”
“Get in the closet now!”
When my mother was six years old, the
truant officer came to her door and my grandfather ordered her to
hide in the closet. Why? Because he didn’t want to have to send her
to school.
My mother was allowed to go to school
the following year because she could then walk her younger brother to
school.
At 19, my mother graduated from high
school in Washington, DC. A talented artist, she was asked to apply
for a scholarship at Corcoran Gallery of Art Art School. She won a
two-year scholarship and when she told her parents, my grandparents,
they sighed and told her, “Nancy, we don’t want you to go to
school. You stay home, work in the restaurant and help your brother
go to college.”
Despite the discouragement, my mother’s
art teacher urged her to take the scholarship. The art teacher, in
fact, went to the Corcoran Gallery of Art and persuaded them to give
my mother the second place prize of a 1-year scholarship and give the
2-year scholarship to another student. After that, my grandparents
relented and allowed my mother to take the 1-year scholarship.
After art school, my mother worked for
a few years as a mapmaker for the Navy and then married my father.
She had five kids, stayed at home, helped my dad’s career and took
care of the five of us. She used to tell me, “Cyndi, you will go to
college and have a career. You will have the choices that I didn’t
have.”
I was lucky; my parents paid for
my university and my mother encouraged, almost demanded that I get an
education and have a career. But many girls are not so lucky. In fact
most girls don’t have the chance to get an education or even have a
decent way of making a living. They may be pushed into having sex
just to feed themselves. They may have no education, no social
networks, and no access to financial services. So they marry early or
are sexually harassed or abused.
We have the ability to help others
around the world. But what is the best way to do that?
Invest in girls. Why? Because research
shows that when you invest in girls, you get a better return on
investment or ROI.
Educating
girls can break cycles of poverty in just one generation. Research
from the World Bank (1) shows that investing in girls so that they
reach the next level of education would mean a gain of lifetime
earnings equal to 54 percent of annual gross domestic product.
When you invest in a girl she will
return about more of her resources to help her family and
community. This phenomenon is so startling it even has a name. It’s
called the Girl Effect.
When you invest in educating a girl,
she will more likely control family planning. She will have fewer
children, not more, and she will to take better care of her children.
If you don’t help educate girls, they will have more children with
the hopes that one of them may survive.
My mother passed away a few months ago
so I’ve been thinking of the legacy she gave to me and the legacy
I’d like to give the world.
I have both a daughter and a son. My
daughter is grown and graduated from college. I have every intention
to help my son to get an education as well.
But here is my call to action.
When you give to others, such as a charity or a non-profit, consider
giving to organizations that help girls and women.
Imagine yourself a girl, 11-years old
in Afghanistan, whose parents are forcing you to leave school and get
married. Or imagine yourself a 14-year old girl in Nepal who works as
an indentured servant from 6 am to 9 pm at night. Then imagine
someone you don’t know in another country sends money so you can go
to school. Will it make a difference? You bet it will.
If we invest in the education of girls
and we can make the world a better place, not just for the girls, but
for the boys, the men, and the women, for all of us. Help get girls
out of the closet and into school.
(1)
Jad Chaaban and Wendy Cunningham,
2011, Measuring the Economic Gain of Investing in Girls The Girl
Effect Dividend
Links to check out:
http://www.girleffect.org/
http://girlrising.com
